Chipwe chocho, mukwa-kupompa ni kukolesa umwenemwene. Ndiwowoneka bwino kwambiri mpaka adaganiza zowonetsa maliseche ake. Eya, mlongoyo sakanatha kukana mwamuna wokongola chotero ndipo anaganiza zokumana ndi tambala payekha. Ndi mphamvu yotani ya umuna, ndipo kotero mutha kutulutsa diso, ndi bwino kuti mlongoyo sanatsamwidwe.
Amayi anaganiza zoseweretsa ana achicheperewo, ndi kugwirizana nawo kuti agonane. Kupanda kutero sakadachita kalikonse pamaso pake. Kugonana kwa pachibale kudachitika kumasewera olimbitsa thupi. Kwenikweni, mtsikanayo adakonza zomwe adachitazo ndipo anali pamwamba pa mwana wake wamkazi.